Friday, 17 May 2013

Hope is what matters...

No matter what you do or where you go,life will knock you down! People will feast on your defeat! They will laugh at your fall and be intimidated by your victory, they will be jealous and angry and will drive you to a point in life where you have to doubt yourself. You cannot give in to them, you cannot let them win. Life doesn't only knock you down in form of problems, but also in form of people who are bullies who spit on your self-esteem and treat you as slaves. You can easily get up and fight back or die a slave. It's up to you to get up, fight back and win or die trying, or stay down and die a loser. Getting bad marks or having family/relationship issues is one of the ways in which life knocks you down. You can get back up, study and get good marks or die a failure without trying. You could re-evaluate your part in the issues and take the initiative to sort them out or let them end. It is all up to you, all you have to do is not give up hope.. Feeling low is natural, it's what you do when you feel low that matters. 

Sometimes we lose ourselves due to the external factors like fights and despair and loss. Maybe that's why hope is so rare in the world that when you stay positive, people ask you "What are you made up of? How do you keep hope? How does it feel to have dreams?"  It's not about how many times you fall and loose faith and hope in everything, it's how many of those times you have the courage to get back up and hope again, trust again, live again.. Being broken isn't wrong, not letting people fix you is the problem. 

Jackie Chan once said 'Life knocks you down, you can choose weather or not to get up....'

Life is the cruel reality to fairy tales and good dreams. There are ups and downs,there always will be but if you don't lose hope, even in the darkest times you will see a light. Life is not tough nor is it a game! Life comes without rules or a save button (unfortunately :P), you cannot undo what's done, you can make it better. You can rectify mistakes, not erase them. The Chinese 'Ying-Yang' gives the same message in a different way.."In every good there is evil and in every evil there is good, the balance of life is maintained by having both 'good' as well as 'evil' equally because they both do merge into one another,that's the inner circle of life...." Without ups and downs in life, you just exist, don't live. There is a difference between existing and LIVING!

"If your life goes according to plan, you're living it wrong."

'It will happen, don't give up hope', these seven words are what I have based my life upon. Bad marks, admissions, being unable to learn something, are all problems that can be solved by following these seven words. 

2 comments:

  1. Karate Kid :D You have to thank me for this post you know? ;)

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  2. I don't, like I told you earlier. :P B)

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